The Full Robin & Steve Bathroom Coming Out Scene | Stranger Things S3

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Have you… ever been in love? Yep. Nancy Wheeler. First semester, senior year. [imitates gunshot, chuckles] Oh, my God. She’s such a priss. [Steve] Hm. Turns out, not really. [scoffs]
Are you still in love with Nancy? -No.
-Why not? I think it’s because I found someone
who’s a little bit better for me. [chuckles] It’s crazy. Ever since Dustin got home,
he’s been saying, “You know, you gotta find your Suzie.
You gotta find your Suzie.” Wait, who’s Suzie? It’s some girl from camp,
I guess his girlfriend. To be honest with you,
I’m not 100% sure she’s even real. But that’s not–
that’s not really the point. That doesn’t matter. The point is,
this girl, you know, the one that I like, it’s somebody that I…
didn’t even talk to in school. And I don’t even know why. Maybe ’cause Tommy H.
would’ve made fun of me or… I wouldn’t be… prom king. It’s stupid. I mean, Dustin’s right,
it’s all just a bunch of bullshit anyways. Because, when I think about it, I should’ve been hanging out
with this girl the whole time. First of all, she’s hilarious.
She’s so funny. I feel like, this summer,
I have laughed harder than I have laughed… in a really long time. And she’s smart. Way smarter than me. You know, she can crack, like,
top secret Russian codes and… You know? She’s honestly unlike anyone
I’ve ever even met before. Robin? [tapping on stall] Robin, did you just OD in there? No. [sighs] I… am still alive. [deep sigh] [Robin] The floor’s disgusting. Yeah, well, I already got a bunch of blood
and puke on my shirt, so… What do you think? About? This girl. She sounds awesome. She is awesome. And what about the guy? I think he’s on drugs,
and he’s not thinking straight. Really? ‘Cause I think he’s thinking
a lot more clearly than usual. He’s not. Look… he doesn’t even know this girl. And if he did know her, like– like really know her, I don’t think he’d even want to be
her friend. No, that’s not true. No way is that true. Listen to me, Steve. It’s shocked me to my core, but I like you. I really like you. But I’m not like your other friends. And I’m not like Nancy Wheeler. Robin, that’s exactly why I like you. [Robin scoffs] Do you remember what I said
about Click’s class? About me being jealous and, like,
obsessed? Yeah. It isn’t because I had a crush on you. It’s because… she wouldn’t stop staring at you. Mrs. Click? [chuckles] Tammy Thompson. I wanted her to look at me. But… she couldn’t
pull her eyes away from you and your stupid hair. And I didn’t understand,
because you would get bagel crumbs all over the floor. And you asked dumb questions. And you were a douchebag. And– And you didn’t even like her and… I would go home… and just scream into my pillow. But Tammy Thompson’s a girl. [softly] Steve. Yeah? Oh. Oh. Holy shit. Yeah. Holy shit. Steve… did you OD over there? No, I just, uh… just thinking. Okay. I mean, yeah. Tammy Thompson, you know,
she’s cute and all, but… I mean, she’s a total dud. She is not. Yes, she is.
She wants to be, like, a singer. She wants to move to, like,
Nashville and shit. -She has dreams.
-She can’t even hold a tune. She’s practically tone-deaf.
Have you heard her? -[Robin chuckles]
-All the time. [singing atonally]
♪ You see me now tonight ♪ -Shut up.
-♪ You see me… ♪ -She does not sound like that.
-She sounds exactly– -That’s a great impersonation of her.
-She does not. You sound like a Muppet. She sounds like a Muppet. She sounds like a Muppet giving birth. [both laughing] [sings like Kermit]
♪ And if you could hold me tight ♪ [both sing atonally]
♪ We’ll be holding on forever ♪ -Exactly.
-[laughs] I know! Okay. What the hell? [both laugh]


The Tatted gamer

Nov 11, 2019, 4:18 pm Reply

Gotta say, I NEVER saw this coming. I mean, not in the slightest. Completely blindsided by this revelation. Is my sarcasm coming through okay?

three words unsaid

Nov 11, 2019, 4:21 pm Reply

This show sum overrated bullshit like the migos


Nov 11, 2019, 4:34 pm Reply

Bro, quit always making everything political. Sheesh, like come on dude, everything is always pushing ideals now. Disney, hulu, now you? Why couldn't you guys just stay neutral.

Kekistani Help Desk

Nov 11, 2019, 4:57 pm Reply

Cringey woke stupid and unnecessary. It would have been a thousand times better if they had played on the high school cool guy ends up with the invisible geek girl. Why lead us up to this crap? It serves no narrative purpose. Also. Why did the soldiers beat the crap out of him and not the girl? Not very equal for woke writers.

Austin Currier

Nov 11, 2019, 5:07 pm Reply



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Nov 11, 2019, 5:47 pm Reply

Lmao imagine if Robin got it all wrong and it actually wasn't her it was another girl 😂😔

Chef Carl Casper

Nov 11, 2019, 6:34 pm Reply

This was so stupid and forced. Hated it. Wasn’t even believeable.


Nov 11, 2019, 6:49 pm Reply

People judging each other for being gay/bi whatever … its 2019 , when are we gonna find a cure goddamit

Richard Hewitt

Nov 11, 2019, 7:55 pm Reply

DSP: "I'm gay I'm gay I'm gay we're totally gay"

Randy Durdy

Nov 11, 2019, 11:01 pm Reply

One of the most pointless inclusion injections in a show ever


Nov 11, 2019, 1:04 am Reply

I feel like they did this for the sake of it. I mean the sexual tension between these two is so thick you could spread it on toast.

Emoni Haggins

Nov 11, 2019, 2:10 am Reply

When she said that i was like whaaaat


Nov 11, 2019, 2:44 am Reply

She just needs some D, when she gets some D, she'll be a normal human woman who likes boys.

I dont like Youtube

Nov 11, 2019, 4:48 am Reply

Way to destroy great chemistry. Make her a lesbo for no reason.


Nov 11, 2019, 7:49 am Reply

Ok to all the people like “Oh it’s so forced” or “oh it wasn’t needed” I just got to say who cares. What you’re calling forced is them just getting a little bit more serious for a few minutes and then getting right back to it.

wate nallace

Nov 11, 2019, 9:30 am Reply

God forbid they could have a hetro relationship in 2019

The Penthouse

Nov 11, 2019, 10:05 am Reply

"but… Tammy is a girl"



Nov 11, 2019, 2:01 pm Reply

She could have made an exception for ma boi Stevos. He even has the most glamorous hair in town which by definition also makes him the prettiest woman in town.

J.P. Silva

Nov 11, 2019, 4:29 pm Reply

No gaydar. I've been there, Steve.

Joel Dodenhoff

Nov 11, 2019, 4:51 pm Reply

Hey Netflix, spoiler alert! Not everyone has watched this yet, and some people might want to learn about this by watching the show, not by scrolling YouTube.

Proxi Centaurian

Nov 11, 2019, 6:24 pm Reply

It was such a disappointment. I was hoping they'd get together. I was thinking she was so hot and bad ass, then this.😑🤦‍♂️

Kai James

Nov 11, 2019, 6:33 pm Reply

Cute, but which bathroom are they in?

Artanis Fist

Nov 11, 2019, 7:33 pm Reply



Nov 11, 2019, 9:47 pm Reply

Steve and Robin have a ton of chemistry. I was a little devastated she wasn't into him. But I love the characters.


Nov 11, 2019, 10:22 pm Reply

Netflix and of course lgbt has to be present …ehhh don t care

Nicholas O’Brien

Nov 11, 2019, 11:03 pm Reply

Her character likes girls, she’s so brave! I hope she gets an Emmy for coming out in the show! Additional awards to the beta that supported her for coming out! Oh let’s also give an award to the creators of the show for making one of the boys to appear gay, because that’s very brave as well.

zeta prime

Nov 11, 2019, 11:18 pm Reply

This friendship is well written and precious and I love it

Donny Annessa

Dec 12, 2019, 12:00 am Reply

Steve: But Tammy Thompson’s a girl
Robin: Steve…
Steve: Yeah?
Me: …take your time Steve…

Dead_Ins!de 04

Dec 12, 2019, 12:09 am Reply

Steve’s too busy being a full time mom to be in a relationship

Jianghan Ren

Dec 12, 2019, 12:42 am Reply

I was dead when Dustin broke into and say :”what the hell”😂😂

JamieCloud Cosplay

Dec 12, 2019, 2:23 am Reply

We love a supportive mother👏👏👏

BingBing BongBong

Dec 12, 2019, 2:51 am Reply

I love these two together.

I also didn’t see this coming at. All.

ninja cookie

Dec 12, 2019, 2:59 am Reply

Look I don’t hate lesbians or gays but it’s starting to get ridiculous how there fucking thrown in every single tv show when they don’t have to be there.


Dec 12, 2019, 4:31 am Reply

They lead us on so hard thinking Steve was who she liked and lied to us at one point lol just to score points with the gay community, whatever though its not like Steve has been saving the day for fuckin multiple seasons now.. fuck me writers, cut homie a break

Masketta Man

Dec 12, 2019, 5:02 am Reply

What a waste. Steve was cucked by a fucking girl this time

Brian Baer

Dec 12, 2019, 6:13 am Reply

Netflix: we don't have an established gay character on the show, that's fine will just make one out of thin air

Vince P

Dec 12, 2019, 3:20 pm Reply

NGL it's cool her being gay, but they literally built sexual tension with them for the whole season, just to reveal she's actually gay?? It makes no sense at all, completely ridiculous.

Danny M

Dec 12, 2019, 3:44 pm Reply

They just had to have a gay person to make the lgbt community happy..

Night Ride

Dec 12, 2019, 4:12 pm Reply

This is what fucked up the series, too much soap opera bullshit, too little sci-fi mystery. I don't give a shit about the characters romance/drama.

Bic Boi

Dec 12, 2019, 5:52 pm Reply

What a selfish bitch didn't even give the poor guy a chance

Melody Media

Dec 12, 2019, 6:12 pm Reply

Next season better just be about them both finally taking a W and getting into a DECENT relationship I swear

robin s

Dec 12, 2019, 6:28 pm Reply

I wish Robin wasn't gay. I want them to be together

Giblet Sanchez

Dec 12, 2019, 7:17 pm Reply

I hate that she was a lesbian, like make anyone else gay or lesbian why heeeeeeeer, he deserves happiness


Dec 12, 2019, 9:06 pm Reply

I though you were American

Spock The Builder

Dec 12, 2019, 9:36 pm Reply

Apparently YouTube or Netflix is deleting comments if they aren't attacking gay people. Fuck that. I hope every homophobic commenter shoots themselves.

オタクの罪Otaku Sin

Dec 12, 2019, 10:27 pm Reply


EastBayBaller 6

Dec 12, 2019, 11:20 pm Reply

I think this scene was great to (a) represent gay culture and (b) address the big problem I had with Robin this season. She kind of showed up without warning and became a staple in the show without having any backstory or any character traits outside of she’s convenient at the moment. I think this scene gives her character life and made her a lot more likable to me


Dec 12, 2019, 3:39 am Reply

Tired of lame ass identity politics and liberal agendas, and I don’t give a fuck if you don’t like my opinion.

Savage Monkey

Dec 12, 2019, 3:45 am Reply

Ew bruh why is he grabbing the toilet seat like that

tre coolio

Dec 12, 2019, 4:06 am Reply

In reality during the 1980’s she would’ve been bullied hard 😳🙌🏼

Simba Perkins

Dec 12, 2019, 6:08 am Reply

Yeah it's not like this when you turn down some ppl gay or not it's just nice when someone understands your boundaries


Dec 12, 2019, 6:19 am Reply

Wow this scene went totally left like I thought they were going to get together and then it turns out she's gay which I'm happy because yay lgbtq representation but Steve can never catch a break like like the girl he was originally with chose to go out with someone else and the girl that he was low-key pining for turned out to be a lesbian there's alway a bump in the road for him but I love that as soon as she mentioned that she was a lesbian even though it caught him off-guard and maybe disappointed him he supported her that's beautiful but damn he can never catch a break


Dec 12, 2019, 7:50 am Reply

”Do I look like a muppet?”

khrien Ar’Kanin

Dec 12, 2019, 8:22 am Reply

Favorite scene.

Dalibor Dupor

Dec 12, 2019, 1:48 pm Reply

This is best coming out scene ever.No SJW shit it didn't feel forced just like good old times.Stranger Things really has that 80-s vibe in spades.

Some nerd with no friends 1

Dec 12, 2019, 1:58 pm Reply

Pink triangle anyone

josh waterman

Dec 12, 2019, 4:17 pm Reply

So lame she’s a lesbian. I wanted them to date next season.


Dec 12, 2019, 4:20 pm Reply

Season 3 is awful

shush XX

Dec 12, 2019, 10:03 pm Reply

This scene makes me cry 😢


Dec 12, 2019, 11:26 pm Reply

Best season ever

Kate G

Dec 12, 2019, 11:31 pm Reply

I love this scene. Oh my heart!!

Phoebe Sabar

Dec 12, 2019, 12:30 am Reply

I can't stop watching this scene! It's so cute and amazingly done!!!! I love you, Robin!

matt forte

Dec 12, 2019, 2:40 am Reply

this scene is so gay 🌈


Dec 12, 2019, 9:22 am Reply

I'm coming out too of the toilet when in done, why do you need 5 minutes for that 🤔

Chloe Oniell

Dec 12, 2019, 11:56 am Reply

I feel so bad he’s like I fancy her so much and then robin is just like umm Steve there’s such thing as lesbian they would of made a great couple but ah well it’s good to be who you wanna be

Nights Crøw

Dec 12, 2019, 12:47 pm Reply

I'm not homophobic towards GB but I'm homophobic against L.


Dec 12, 2019, 1:55 pm Reply

What is the likelihood that this would go this well back in the 80s? As awesome as this scene was done, methinks it wasnt that happy back in the day on average.

thank you Kanye very cool

Dec 12, 2019, 4:11 pm Reply

they finna gonna smash


Dec 12, 2019, 4:48 pm Reply

Maya Hawke is so gorgeous

Anonym Funny Channel

Dec 12, 2019, 5:04 pm Reply

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I Love this scene


Dec 12, 2019, 7:00 pm Reply

This scene was stupid, the whole time I thought they were gonna get together and then she is like " nah im gay " but how she worded everything was terrible cuz it set it up like she liked him.

Lara Pastor

Dec 12, 2019, 7:20 pm Reply

lesbian culture is rewatching this video for the millionth time

El Charrua

Dec 12, 2019, 8:11 pm Reply

But I wanted them together😥

The green tea Dragon

Dec 12, 2019, 8:17 pm Reply

I’m a lesbian Steve

I thought you where American

Someone already made this joke

Corne Van Gulik

Dec 12, 2019, 10:03 pm Reply

I wont ask for much this Christmas but we need Robin to be bi
We’ve got a deal Netflix gods?

Alejandro Prieto

Dec 12, 2019, 11:08 pm Reply

Still would like seeing them together tho


Dec 12, 2019, 12:51 am Reply

Netflix doesn't like negative comments apparently.


Dec 12, 2019, 3:24 am Reply

Wow, this show got all gaaaaay for absolutely no reason. I mean considering the time line and their age, how's homosexuality just something she would admit let alone firmly accept as her sexuality at that stage of her life? Doesn't make sense, they just made her this gold star who knows she's homo and certain of herself. This is also like the 80s right? Yeah queers at that time were totally just coming out whenever hit upon and the guys at the time were more open minded and accepting….I get this is fantasy but eh what's in store of the 4th season…dudes with tits (You know, the T's)??


Dec 12, 2019, 9:06 am Reply

I was mad af cuz the whole season was hinting at them getting together then she just comes out as gay randomly 😂

Ray H.

Dec 12, 2019, 4:17 pm Reply

I'm okay with that choice , my problem is Steve's reaction
We're in the 80's and you're gonna tell me that a coming out was accepted that easily during that period ?


Dec 12, 2019, 5:05 pm Reply

Robin: she wouldn’t stop looking at you…
Steve: Misses Click ??


Dec 12, 2019, 5:10 pm Reply

Dude Steve better get a cool ass girlfriend next season


Dec 12, 2019, 5:17 pm Reply

Steve and Robin: 😂😂😂😂😂🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🤝🤝😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Sarah Aerni

Dec 12, 2019, 11:33 pm Reply

I love how amazing Steve reacted to robin being gay. They truly are meant to be best friends.


Dec 12, 2019, 12:28 am Reply

Steve: "I love you."
Robin: gibe de pusi b0ss

The WyattChannel

Dec 12, 2019, 1:27 am Reply

This scene will soon become iconic

Joe Fernandez

Dec 12, 2019, 11:13 pm Reply

I don’t care if the sole plot of Season 4 is finding Steve a girlfriend, but I’m gonna need my mans to find some love.

Kitty Grimm

Dec 12, 2019, 11:24 pm Reply

I think people are forgetting just how bad homophobia was in the '80s, so imagine how terrifying this must be for Robin and how kind Steve is for understanding.

Harry Turner

Dec 12, 2019, 1:52 am Reply



Dec 12, 2019, 3:17 am Reply

This is what Stranger Things is all about. These genuine built-up scenes with two complex characters confronting the reality of the fucked up situation they're in, and personalizing it.

Kevin Smith

Dec 12, 2019, 3:44 am Reply

SJW garbage


Dec 12, 2019, 2:11 pm Reply

Ouch. Poor Steve. And poor Robin.

Malzie World

Dec 12, 2019, 5:52 pm Reply

Who remembers how at one point we all shipped Robin and Steve


Dec 12, 2019, 3:36 am Reply

They had the perfect opportunity with this character. The girl who's been ignored and even bullied and unnoticed, used to be obsessed with her crush. Steve, was a jock, a popular kid, untouchable, humiliated and humbled. They meet during a key timing, him changing and becoming a man of valor and she, thinking that it was all past, got over it all and outgrew her insecurities. When they meet, its the perfect tension.. his regret for his past, his admiration for her while she gets divided between her admiration for the changed man, her crushing slowly turning back and the repressed anger for him and what he represented to her for such long. It could have been the perfect thing between them but they prefered to gay her out because, Netflix.

Izzy B

Dec 12, 2019, 8:02 pm Reply

Aw I love this scene, Steve’s such an amazing supportive friend and Robin’s so cute :’)💜

santi edlp

Dec 12, 2019, 9:48 am Reply

3:19 💔 HEARTBREAK 🥺😢💔

Réka Sterk-Rajzó

Dec 12, 2019, 11:28 am Reply

What song are they singing?

bar rosner

Dec 12, 2019, 7:25 pm Reply

5:09 – 5:51 my favourite part.

Stephen Ceja

Dec 12, 2019, 7:14 am Reply

This scene hits hard… for some reason I always seem to be in this situation where I’m ready to move on but for different circumstances the other person doesn’t feel the same or isn’t ready… IT SUCKS MAN…. it really does…. and I know a lot of people feel the same

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