By Grover Koelpin 100 comments

Oh hi Internet! It appears that everyone’s lost their damn mind.. again. You’ve probably heard about HB-2 in North Carolina which requires that people use the bathroom that corresponds with their biological sex. And then, PayPal was like, “See ya! North Carolina, you suck!” Bruce Springsteen, Demi Lovato, and a bunch of artists are like, “Yeah, sorry, no music for you.” Then Target joins the party, and they’re like, “We support trans people! Equality in our bathrooms! Also buy stuff.” And 8 ka-trillion people sign a boycott against Target for “letting boys in the girls’ bathroom! Think of the children!” And then the Department of Justice was like, “We ARE thinking of the children and that’s why we’re suing you, North Carolina. Title 7, Title 9, heard of it?” And then, y’all, that Duck Dynasty guy who, like, won’t go away, comes in and says, “I HAVE A RADICAL IDEA!” *scary music* “That bathroom is for whites on- uh, men only.” And the trans advocates are like, “Yeah, bruh. Trans men are men!” And well, basically, everything’s a mess. If aliens were watching us, they’d probably be so confused right now. On its surface, the bathroom debate is an idiotic argument to have. Fact: trans people have been using the stall next to us, since, uh, forever. The laws are there as a form of protection. This does not mean that bathrooms are a free-for-all! No, men can’t just waltz into the women’s bathroom, that’s still against the law. So, ‘Merica, what’s this really about? We are witnessing a truly fascinating modern debate about gender. And gender has been on America’s mind. Bathrooms are forcing Americans to ask themselves, who belongs in a box literally marked women? Who belongs in a room labelled men? And that is an anxiety inducing question for a lot of people, right? Because gender is a big part of how we see ourselves, it’s a big part of how we see the world. There are basically two ways that people are thinking about gender. In Camp 1, gender is the same as sex. Vagina=woman, penis=man. Done. In Camp 2, gender is different than sex. Gender is how an individual understands themselves and moves through society. It’s about identity, not genitals. So, what’s the truth? Well, at least in academia, amongst public health and medical experts, it’s widely accepted that gender and sex are two different things. Reduced to its most simple parts, gender is socially and culturally informed whereas sex is biologically informed. But that doesn’t mean Camp 1 is entirely wrong. In fact, if gender and sex are two different things, it doesn’t mean they’re completely unrelated. The way that we are socialized in the world is based on our sex. There are privileges that you can reap because of your sex. There are prejudices that people face because of their sex. I mean, yeah, this stuff is a little confusing. There are entire libraries of books written about it, right? What this means is that for some people who are in the bathroom police camp right now, it’s just a matter of education. A little myth busting, you know how it goes. But for others in the bathroom police camp, we’re up against something a little bit trickier. Uh….. prejudice. Prejudice is fear. Fear, is a helluva drug, y’all. Potent as fuck. So, what’s the big picture here? Some Americans are feeling threatened by the pace of social change that’s happening in America. They’re called “conservatives” because they want to conserve what is. They generally oppose change and they don’t want the government touching anything, whether it’s their free markets or social issues. And yet, in relatively quick succession, we’ve had the election of the first black president, same-sex marriage legalized, government health reform, America’s status quo is freaking out. There is an organized backlash that is growing under the banners of Fox News, the White Nationalist Party, the Tea Party, the Pro-Life Movement, the GOP, including a potential president Donald Trump. Would you recognize it if you were to live through a second Civil Rights movement? What would that look like in the 21st century? Take a look around, fam. This is about way more than bathrooms. *sings* Peace be with everyone. *sings* Except your mom, oh. What?


1 devious mama

Oct 10, 2016, 3:44 am Reply

Here is a simple solution, unisex bathrooms

Bradley Harcup

Oct 10, 2016, 11:14 pm Reply

you was say that you like orgasams and now you talk about bathrooms


Oct 10, 2016, 1:30 pm Reply

when I watch her I believe in aliens

Keith Sauve

Oct 10, 2016, 7:17 am Reply

If you have a penis, you are a boy. If you have a vagina, you are a girl. If you are confused, its not your gender that is confused, it is your brain.

Mike Spencer

Oct 10, 2016, 12:36 pm Reply

who cares its a place to take a dump and piss ive seen girls use mens restrooms because womens lines were so long lol put urnals in the womens restrooms and there you have it we all go dump n pee in the same room but dont complain if your a female and the guy at the urnal farts as you walk buy

Mike Spencer

Oct 10, 2016, 12:43 pm Reply

so a man could follow a hot chick into restroom like laci and take a dump in the next stall and fart and gas her out nice and the stalls are not to the ground so youll see lacis panties nice lets get that voted in

Alex Smithson

Oct 10, 2016, 2:44 pm Reply

Conflating sex and gender is idiotic Laci, besides having operation to imitate the other sex doesn't make you that gender


Oct 10, 2016, 8:59 am Reply

I'm sorry but did you really just turn a video about gendered bathrooms, into a video about sexism and racism? I honestly think this might be one of the most ridiculous connections I've heard outside conspiracy theorists.


Oct 10, 2016, 10:41 pm Reply

I can understand why you only produce one or two videos a month. It must be quite an effort to put that much stupidity into one four minute video.

Almighty 91

Nov 11, 2016, 4:13 am Reply

1. A man learns not to go in a ladies restroom at a young age like.. once your 2
2. A man doesn't go in to see women sht or pee
3. A man lest a women go before him it's called being a gentleman DO U KNOW WHAT THAT IS LACI

Anime Trash

Nov 11, 2016, 9:11 pm Reply

What's next, different bathrooms for homosexuals, or different bathrooms for different skin colors. Why don't we just have unisex bathrooms. I'm non binary and I prefer to use the women's bathrooms , I like looking masculine (I have small boobs that I hide under baggy tops and my hair covers my face so you can't exactly tell with me.), I can imagine the day I will be arrested because I walk into the women's restroom and people mistake me for a man.

jack Haha

Nov 11, 2016, 12:37 am Reply

Turmp 2016🇺🇸

Kyler Jenkins

Nov 11, 2016, 11:49 pm Reply

You should fight back against youtubes sexist rules against nudity. why can men post topless videos why cant women. take a stand lacy

Jordon Rutschow

Nov 11, 2016, 7:32 am Reply

i got a solution for this people with a penis go to one bathroom people with a vagina goning another bathroom no matter what you feel or look like go to the bathroom with your biological body part. (ps this is probly one of laci greens most un bias disscusions about gender/sex what ever people call it now days)


Nov 11, 2016, 11:57 am Reply

what if your bi-gender can you go in both?


Nov 11, 2016, 5:10 pm Reply

Boy or girl pick one and stick with it for more than a few hours. Problem solved.


Nov 11, 2016, 3:17 am Reply

Historians of the future won't be hard-pressed to find evidence of why it all went wrong


Nov 11, 2016, 6:00 am Reply

Do you sexually identify with a short bus? Because you are special.

Bullet Train

Nov 11, 2016, 4:51 pm Reply

If aliens were watching us they would ask why people put up with your psycho babble.


Nov 11, 2016, 8:14 pm Reply

if I wish I was a genius does that make me one?

Clorox Bleach

Nov 11, 2016, 1:02 am Reply

Your a girl

Clorox Bleach

Nov 11, 2016, 1:02 am Reply

And also drink me

Mojokiller ShiftTwo

Nov 11, 2016, 1:35 am Reply

Make a 3rd bathroom for trans (q + ô)

Galactic Phantom

Nov 11, 2016, 9:27 am Reply

A how to basic video makes more sense than this

Quila Viper

Nov 11, 2016, 9:45 pm Reply

Huh, ratings are turned off. What a shocker.

That’s a Toilet

Nov 11, 2016, 4:18 am Reply

I identify as a street cone


Nov 11, 2016, 8:04 pm Reply

laci you are the smartest person i have ever heard

Felix Jolly

Dec 12, 2016, 10:59 am Reply

I identify as a can of soup i DESERVE the right to sit on the shelves of supermarkets

Robbie Ridgeway

Dec 12, 2016, 1:59 am Reply

Liberal Logic: If i identify as a trans-pan-book-chair-vegan sexual that is ecosexual, i deserve to use whatever bathroom i want!


Dec 12, 2016, 9:05 pm Reply

I am so ashamed to live in North Carolina. (I'm from Tennessee originally)

Trey Spencer

Dec 12, 2016, 1:55 am Reply

Might not want to over generalize people for their political beliefs


Dec 12, 2016, 10:57 pm Reply

Men actually can walk into whatever bathroom they want. Literally all they have say now is that "I identify as a women".

Birdistheword 12

Dec 12, 2016, 4:40 pm Reply

Why did I subscribe to you a year ago what the hell

Darklightgaming FTW

Jan 1, 2017, 9:13 pm Reply

"Transgenders have been next to you since forever" sorry I don't think transgender existed in the 1600s

Yer Divergent Tris

Jan 1, 2017, 6:00 am Reply

I didn't think I would find someone who believes in the same stuff I do

Claire McDermott

Jan 1, 2017, 2:47 am Reply

(Bubble pops) If I had a dollar for every gender there was in the word, I'd have 2 dollars


Jan 1, 2017, 11:05 pm Reply

1:14 but nada about females


Jan 1, 2017, 11:08 pm Reply

1:51 Yep pretty much
2:00 NO. Gender is not a "social construct"

Le Avocado

Feb 2, 2017, 5:00 pm Reply

How about we force people to legally change their gender in order to use the opposite bathroom

Clap Reload

Feb 2, 2017, 11:14 pm Reply

Not against the law for a man to walk into a womens bathroom dumbass

Mike Lange

Feb 2, 2017, 3:34 am Reply

booboo booboo booboo

The Unicorn Lady

Mar 3, 2017, 12:19 am Reply

Gender roles exist for a reason. Lets try to get back to 1950. (just without the racism lol)

The Medic man

Mar 3, 2017, 8:39 pm Reply

then where is my apache attack helicopter bathroom?

RayGames X_X

Mar 3, 2017, 2:03 am Reply

damn ur pretty

Sofia Moore

Mar 3, 2017, 2:11 am Reply

Panic! At the bathroom

Rosie Eggleston

Mar 3, 2017, 5:08 pm Reply

I have autism, I just use the disabled toilet.

Jackson Lee

Apr 4, 2017, 2:32 am Reply

There are 2 genders. That's all.

suga is my life

Apr 4, 2017, 3:30 pm Reply

why don't you use the bathroom in the house…….. bathrooms are nasty

Michael Lucius

Apr 4, 2017, 7:31 am Reply

Anybody who is trans is just giving into the very gender roles the left claims to be so strongly opposed to.

leon schweiger

Apr 4, 2017, 5:10 pm Reply

Could we please just regulate our toiletts around sex (by that I mean the what genitals the person has). The whole gender thing is as you mentitioned a matter of complex dicussion that lacks definitive answers…..

Asian Trump

Apr 4, 2017, 6:22 pm Reply

Someday I'm just going to walk up to her house and throw a 9th grade biology book through her window…

Rockin Sim

Apr 4, 2017, 2:00 am Reply

This comment section.


Apr 4, 2017, 6:23 pm Reply

woman can go in mens room so men can to


Apr 4, 2017, 3:19 pm Reply

The TEA flag is not the Confederate flag, its the Don't Tread on Me Flag


May 5, 2017, 1:28 am Reply

I have used mens bathrooms many times and I'm not even trans. Idgaf

UnderOver Achiever

May 5, 2017, 2:47 am Reply

Title 7, Title 9, those have nothing to do with bathrooms. Title 7 was employment and 9 was in education and sport ONLY.

Jack Housman

May 5, 2017, 7:36 pm Reply

"People hate what they're afraid of, and they're afraid of what they don't understand, which is almost everything." Nathaniel West, author of "Miss Lonelyhearts".

Jack Housman

May 5, 2017, 7:38 pm Reply

Has even ONE incident of a woman being molested in a restroom by a woman who used to be a man, been reported?


Jun 6, 2017, 1:49 am Reply

oh hey there.
I live in North Carolina.
Just great .-.

Feirce Majora

Jun 6, 2017, 4:48 am Reply

just so everyones clear there are 3 MAIN genders: male, female and both (which is a rare chance) then there are sexual identities which goes with gender dysphoria. Now before people go saying that its "whatever phobia" because i said gender dysphoria which is a mental illness, that you can be born with, that causes people to feel as if they are not the gender they were born as, gender dysphoria isnt curable and its not a hospitalization type mental illness, now the thing with gender dysphoria is that when people start going into their feelings they have to go through all of the trouble to get accepted and get the right surgery (optional) to feel more happy about themselves, its a very simple thing to understand but people dont care to listen to the facts

Brown McJuggerNuggets

Jun 6, 2017, 4:09 pm Reply

Those damn little kids coming under the stall when you're shitting

Vv Robinson

Jun 6, 2017, 7:30 am Reply

Why no likes?

Renee Huizinga

Jun 6, 2017, 5:39 pm Reply

The laws are not meant to be discriminatory. They're supposed to protect everyone from those who claim to be transgender but in reality just wanna be creeps. It's a shame that some have to suffer because of a few, but that's the way it is.

Vale Hass

Jun 6, 2017, 3:37 pm Reply

The simple solution is the government doesn't get involved and if you can pass as the other gender no one will even know. How about that?

Parisien Russe

Jul 7, 2017, 11:07 am Reply

You are more stupid than I thought. When will you kick your basket?

I wish I could think of a better name

Jul 7, 2017, 7:09 pm Reply

Why don't we have a gender fluid bathroom that anyone can use?


Aug 8, 2017, 6:01 am Reply

if they aren't having it then why do i use paypal and multiple targets in my town. busted.


Oct 10, 2017, 1:23 am Reply

8 trillion wow thats a lot of people

Emma Revell

Oct 10, 2017, 11:43 pm Reply

There has been a real push for gender neutral uniforms, toilets and changing areas in schools in New Zealand and some schools have already adopted these things which is great. Heres an article outlining some information –


Nov 11, 2017, 4:22 am Reply


All Usernames Taken

Nov 11, 2017, 4:42 pm Reply

She had me until 1:23

magic cheeseball

Nov 11, 2017, 7:30 pm Reply

The problem with this bathroom issue is there is no criteria for being transgender. you said is is still illegal for a man to go in a woman's bathroom which is totally false under the federal Obama law. because there is no criteria for being transgender anyone can say they are any gender and go in any bathroom. that's why that law is gay. (gay as in lame not gay as in homosexual) Personally I should love this law because i might be gender fluid next time I'm at the gym and decide I'm woman for a few minutes and go in the woman's locker room and chill for a while. (i actually wouldn't do what out of respect and i would look like a idiot)

Ash Cebil Neo

Dec 12, 2017, 12:11 am Reply

What a waste of breathe, these people are humans. Eg intersex xx male or xy female-de la cahppelle syndrome or persistent mulleran duct syndrome where a male has a uterus and period. Also, hemaphrodites who impregnante themselves

Technical Difficulties

Dec 12, 2017, 8:49 pm Reply

I despise this law!!! I live in North Carolina. Plz don’t hate me. I love LGBT. I’m Demi (A variant of ace)

Sentimental Gurney

Jan 1, 2018, 2:17 pm Reply


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Technical Difficulties

Jan 1, 2018, 6:02 pm Reply

🙁 I’m from North Carolina… PLZ NO HATE. I am a feminist, and I believe that EVERYONE is equal.

High Vibe

Jan 1, 2018, 7:14 pm Reply

They should just have a picture of a penis and a picture of Vagina for bathroom doors , since people are confused asf

Bizmates Ailee

Feb 2, 2018, 7:17 am Reply

I had a problem like this once. A woman keeps complaining I'm using the women's bathroom. She fears that I might sexually assault any girls inside. Like WTF? The last thing a trans woman would like to do in a bathroom is grope people who aren't their sexual preference. Same goes for trans men. 😂

Jazmoon Webb

Feb 2, 2018, 11:16 pm Reply

Not a popular opinion but I think you should use the bathroom based on your organs not what you think. Personally it makes me uncomfortable when a male who claims to be female walks in a bathroom

Kaleb Payba

Mar 3, 2018, 3:39 am Reply

The fact is some people out there in the world may take advantage of being transgender and take advantage of someone, this doesn't mean that all transgender people are like this

alexis nelson

Mar 3, 2018, 6:15 pm Reply

is a man goes into the women bathroom then they could be a child predator

V. C.

Mar 3, 2018, 1:30 am Reply

I think they should just have a row of one-stall restrooms that anyone can use.

Kevie CJL

May 5, 2018, 11:47 pm Reply

I dont see why dont just have neutral bathrooms w/ many stalls. I also feel open urinals are a direct attack on men's pricacy- ps: from a female

V. C.

May 5, 2018, 3:09 am Reply

This isn't even an issue if trans people have been using the stall next to us since forever. Just don't change anything and let trans people use the restroom they've always used. It's not that important. It's just a toilet.

V. C.

May 5, 2018, 3:11 am Reply

I think it's crazy that so many people are going against north Carolina just cuz they make people use the restroom that they actually are.

I Watch Things

May 5, 2018, 10:52 pm Reply

Why are Americans crazy about this stuff? Canada doesn’t have these problems. Transgender bathrooms could be a thing, like free for all.

Star Cherry

May 5, 2018, 1:06 am Reply

Why not just leave the bathrooms like how they are?

Walking Corpse

Jun 6, 2018, 9:21 pm Reply

Just to correct her, the rules of the bathroom laws that are transgender friendly allow anybody who Identifies as a specific gender to use their designated bathroom. Which means u could be a man, identify as a woman and use the women's restroom. Just saying.

Walking Corpse

Jun 6, 2018, 9:26 pm Reply

Gender is not social btw, it's biological, it's just used socially, but gender is the state of ones role as a certain sex. For example female bees have stingers and therefore can defend the hive and do so as well as gather pollen. Males do not have stingers and simply mate with the queen and take care of the babies. In humans, females have periods, give birth, get pregnant, that is their gender role. Men penetrate and ejaculate sperm to fertilize the females eggs, that is their gender role. Learn what Gender actually is, it's not the same as sex, but is not social.

andy willi

Jul 7, 2018, 3:05 am Reply

phil would kick your ass

beezle bubblebut

Jul 7, 2018, 8:45 am Reply

If ur biologically a man I'm gonna call u a man idgaf

Sep 9, 2018, 9:44 pm Reply

Social NORM is for people to use the bathroom that matches their gender appearance, this is what happens EVERY day at EVERY restroom in the USA … and people will feel most comfortable conforming to this social norm. No genital checks required. Statistics show, ZERO women were raped by Trans people in the women's rest rooms in the USA last year .. it's a NON-PROBLEM, the only problem resides in the minds of strange people who want to do bathroom genital checks … nope, not going to happen, may I suggest a clergy position at a Catholic Church instead?

Rob A

Oct 10, 2018, 6:46 pm Reply

here we can see laci before she saw her first jordan peterson video

RV Vagabond Jerry

Oct 10, 2018, 5:16 am Reply

I have never figured out why we have separate male & female bathrooms. With stalls and partitions there is nothing to see there. I don't think men care but you might want to ask women "what would be the problem if men were in the women's bathrooms?"


Nov 11, 2018, 8:56 pm Reply

My school has a Ladies Bathroom, a men’s bathroom, and a unisex bathroom.

Athal Kotiyai

Dec 12, 2018, 12:30 pm Reply

Gender equality means men and women must share the same toilets. ❤️

Samantha Sarmiento

Dec 12, 2018, 9:13 pm Reply

This girls a moron. It’s official.

Kenneth Gray

Mar 3, 2019, 1:33 am Reply

I clicked like at the alien part lol

Sarah Rios

Jun 6, 2019, 10:47 pm Reply

Gender and sex are a social construct. There is no such thing as masculine or feminine.

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